Love is beautiful. Anyone in love with the right person would agree with me. However, relationships always consist of two people from different backgrounds, upbringing, and personalities. Thus, you tend to differ. Just like a saying that says “opposite attracts,” this is applicable in human relationships as well. Regardless of your personality or background, I have experienced and come to understand that when opposite attracts, they fit like a puzzle. However, there is always an exception.
Knowing the difference in all you do, you’d know that your love languages differ. You cannot assume for your partner. The mistake we mostly make nowadays is loving people in a language they do not understand. Most people do not even have an idea of what love languages are. However, knowing the right love language to speak does not only apply to romantic relationships. It applies to everyone you care for, family, friends, acquaintances, etc.
So that you know, we have five different and was discovered by Gary Chapman.
Here are the five love languages and explanations on how they work.
1. Words of affirmation
One way to express love to some people is the word of affirmation. If words of affirmation are your partner’s love language, they tend to put a high emphasis on the spoken word. This means that they enjoy being reassured that they are loved, appreciated, and it also means that hurtful comments will be extremely damaging. In fact, they often want you to tell them how much you love them. This is not because they do not trust you; they just want you to reassure them often.
2. Quality time
I understand you are busy and trying to make a living; however, try to create time for your partner. They will accept the gift and all, but you notice they still complain, that’s because you’re not speaking the language they’d love to hear. Clearing your schedule and creating time for them would make them feel loved and happy. They absolutely enjoy you give undivided attention.
3. Receiving gifts
Almost everyone loves this, and this doesn’t imply they are materialistic. Yes, I love to receive gifts from people that are dear to me. This always reminds me of them whenever they are not around. If receiving gifts is your partner’s love language, do that more often. You will also derive joy in making them happy. It’s a win-win situation.
4. Acts of service
We’ve found ourselves in a generation where we believe rendering helps to your partner is viewed as a form of slavery, especially if it’s the guy doing that for the lady. When acts of service are your partner’s love language, they feel most loved when you do things for them. We all know that “actions speaks louder than voice.”
5. Physical touch
If your partner loves to cuddle, hug, kiss, or make love more, I guess physical touch is their love language. People like this want to always be in close contact with their partner. This is the best way you can show love to them
MONDAY HEALTH TALK : Reasons you should deworm every three months
Deworming is the process of expelling intestinal worms or parasitic worms from the body. It is medicated process to kill worms.
Common symptoms of intestinal worms are
•blood in stool
• frequent urinating
•rash on the buttocks
•nausa or vomiting etc
Prevention method include
•people should always wash their hand before and after using the toilet
• Always wash your hand before eating any meal
• always wash your hand before cooking
• cook meat before eating
•always wear slippers in your bathroom or toilet
MONDAY HEALTH TALK : The dangers of missing breakfast
Before you dash out of the house every morning not eating breakfast there are some things you should know about the first meal of the day. You must have hear people say breakfast is the most important meal of the day and yes they are not far from the truth.
These are some harmful effects of missing breakfast
• leads to weight gain
• can trigger hair loss
• can cause Migraine
• increase the risk of cancer
• slows metabolism.
• higher risk of type 2 diabetes
So before you skip breakfast everyone morning make sure to know you are exposing yourself to these risks.
President Jonathan has given the reason for the backwardness of Nigeria ( Details)
President Jonathan speaking in the Palace of the Emir of Bauchi has said that the tradition of favoritism in leadership positions among families, friends, acquaintances rathr than ability and capability to deliver is responsible for Nigeria’s backwardness.
He said the tradition in Nigeria is that before one can be appointed to an office or given a responsibility, he must know someone at the top echelon in the country, regretting that the development has taken the nation backwards.
The former president was reacting to the introductory comments made by the Bauchi state Governor, Bala Mohammed who said the president never met him before he made him FCT minister.
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